Dear Human 💕,

Meow! With that voice in your head you don’t need any other enemies. As humans like to say: You’re clearly your own worst enemy.

You wouldn’t talk to anyone else like this.

You wouldn’t let anyone else talk to you like this.

But you’ve been talking to yourself like that for so long that you don’t even realize how mean you are to yourself.

You think you’re encouraging yourself to do better. You’re not. You’re beating yourself down and you’re not letting yourself get up. You’re hurting yourself.

Cats don’t do that. We don’t attack ourselves. We can be real jerks to others, but we’re never jerks to ourselves. We are on own own side.

In any situation, pay attention to the voice inside your head and what it’s telling you. Ask yourself: are you helping or hurting yourself? Are you on your own side right now or not?

Always be on your own side!

Yours,
Cat 🐾

P.S. Always being on your own side doesn’t mean that you not considering others. You are considering the other side and your own side. And if what others expect or need doesn’t work for you, you’re not sacrificing your own needs over that of others. You’re standing up for yourself and you’re trying to figure out what works for everyone.