Category: Move Forward

Take action to create the life you actually want instead of just surviving each day. This is about setting goals, making progress, and turning all that knowledge about yourself into real changes in your daily life.

Cat staring at a spinning compass

How to use your inner compass?

Dear Human 💕, You figured out how your inner compass works. It points you toward what matters to you. You know how to read it now. you notice when it points toward something, and...

Squeaks staring at exercise weights

How to make it stick

Dear Human 💕, While sipping your morning coffee you reviewed your goals and now you are looking like Grumpy Smurf. You keep setting some of the same goals month after month, and over and...

You made it!

Dear Human 💕, You’re back! You didn’t die! Meow! And you look different. The last few months had been exhausting. You didn’t think you could do it. That was a lot of UP seven...

Create yourself a sleep sanctuary

Dear Human 💕, You’re tossing and turning and you can’t fall asleep. I’m not surprised. Just before heading to bed, I heard you talk about all the things that went wrong today, everything you’re...

Plan things to look forward to

Dear Human 💕, I saw how hard it was to get out of bed this morning. You were thinking about everything you’ve been struggling with for weeks now, and all the things you have...

Cat looking guilty after breaking toy snake - example of when to apologize versus over-apologizing

Stop apologizing so much

Dear Human 💕, I’ve been counting how many times you said “sorry” today. 12. You apologized for asking a question. You apologized for seeing something differently. You apologized for taking up space. You apologized...

Let’s see how it goes

Dear Human 💕, I can see you’re stressing out over how things will turn out. Let me remind you that you cannot control the future. It’s unpredictable. I know that human brains don’t like...