You teach others how to treat you
Dear Human 💕, You are complaining about how that human has been treating you. Meow. They’ve been acting like a feral cat. But while you can’t control how other humans behave, you can teach them how...
Tagged: Communication
The tricky business of expressing your thoughts and feelings so that other humans understand how you really think and feel. To understand what other humans are trying to tell you, you really need to listen. Communication is difficult and goes wrong a lot.
You can’t avoid disappointing others (or being disappointed)
Dear Human 💕, I’ve been watching you and the other human trying to figure out plans for your night together. One human wants to go out. One human wants to stay in. You want...
If you don’t ask you’re saying NO to yourself
Dear Human 💕 I can see you hesitate to ask for what you want. What if the say NO? Think about it: Maybe there’s only a 10 % chance that they say YES and...
You have the right to be human
Dear Human 💕, I see you asking yourself a lot what you should or shouldn’t do. It seems like you’re questioning what you are allowed to do. It looks like I need to remind...
Are they really not trying?
Dear Human 💕, I can see you’re angry at that human. They haven’t reached out in weeks. They keep canceling plans. They don’t seem to be making any effort at all. It feels like...
Don’t lock yourself away
Dear Human 💕, What are you doing in the dark all by yourself? I can see a lot is going on in your head, but you’re just staring at the ceiling. You wanted to...
Be there for others
Dear Human 💕, I can see you’re worried about another human in your life. They seem different lately. Maybe they’re not grooming themselves as much, or they’re sleeping more, or they’ve stopped doing things...
Listen to understand
Dear Human 💕. It looks like you’re listening, but you don’t seem to understand. You seem to be thinking about how you’re going to respond and if there is anything you can fix. You...
You can only control yourself and your reality
Dear Human 💕, You can only control yourself and the reality you creÂate for yourself. Nothing else. You can control: You cannot control other humans. All the things you can control for yourself, you...
Ask for what you need
Dear Human 💕, It’s okay to meow for what you need. If you don’t meow for it, other humans can’t know what it is you need. Humans are terrible at mind reading. And sometimes...