Dear Human 💕,

It’s that time of year when humans gather to share a giant bird – or a Tofurky thing – and as many side dishes as there are humans at the table. Then comes the pies. Pumpkin, Pecan, Apple, Key Lime, Blueberry, Cherry. And afterwards? Every single human complains they ate too much. Every year. And if I counted correctly, you‘re are going to do that four times this year!

There’s that tradition where humans go around the table saying what they’re grateful for. I’ve been mentioned a few times, of course. Health gets mentioned. Concerts. Jobs. Adventures. But mostly? Other humans.

I’m grateful for my humans too. Also my soft cat bed, the heated blanket, my cat tree, that machine that spits out dry food, and all the treats and cuddles. But especially my humans.

Here’s what I want you to remember: Appreciate your humans while they’re here. Don’t take them for granted. Life is unpredictable. None of us knows what’s coming next month, next week, or even tomorrow.

I know some of those humans around the table see things differently than you do. Not all humans love board games, cheese, cherry pie, and cats. Some prefer watching sports, celery, pumpkin pie, and dogs. I don’t understand why anyone would prefer dogs over cats, but if it makes them happy, let them. Agree to disagree.

Here’s what matters: Do they treat other humans with respect? Do they try to understand different views, even when they disagree? Are they kind?

If yes, then those are your humans. You don’t have to agree on everything. You can have very different universes and still appreciate what that human bring to your life.

If a human can’t respect others and their views? They’re not really your human. But Thanksgiving dinner isn’t the time or place to hiss at each other. Save it for later.

Enjoy your gatherings. Eat too much pie. And show your humans that you appreciate them.

Yours,
Cat 🐾

P.S. You always bring home leftovers and yet I haven’t gotten a single piece of that bird. I’ve seen those birds outside and they look scary, but I’m curious if they taste like chicken. Just saying.