Your no protects your yes
Dear Human 💕, I can see that you want to say no, but you feel uncomfortable with it. You’re worried about disappointing the other human. You’re worried about seeming rude or selfish. So instead...
Tagged: Assertive Communication
Finding the middle ground between being a doormat and being a bully when you talk to others, confident but kind.
You can’t avoid disappointing others (or being disappointed)
Dear Human 💕, I’ve been watching you and the other human trying to figure out plans for your night together. One human wants to go out. One human wants to stay in. You want...
You have the right to be human
Dear Human 💕, I see you asking yourself a lot what you should or shouldn’t do. It seems like you’re questioning what you are allowed to do. It looks like I need to remind...
Allow yourself to get angry
Dear Human 💕, I can see you’re trying really hard to keep yourself from getting angry. Why? Here’s how I see it: You are living in a society where anger is considered bad. Now,...
Some help please?
Dear Human 💕, I noticed that you’re struggling with accepting help and that you really, really don’t like to ask for it. I know humans would like to be as independent as cats are....
It‘s okay to say NO
Dear Human 💕, It’s okay to say NO. If a human touches your belly, when you don’t want it, it’s okay to give them a gentle bite. Most humans will get that you want...
Embrace Conflict
Dear Human 💕, I noticed you’re trying to avoid conflict. Look at it this way: conflict is just two creatures seeing things differently. It happens all the time and you can’t avoid it. We...