You can’t avoid disappointing others (or being disappointed)
Dear Human 💕, I’ve been watching you and the other human trying to figure out plans for your night together. One human wants to go out. One human wants to stay in. You want...
Tagged: Basic Needs
The must-haves for staying alive and feeling okay: food, water, sleep, safety, and love. Cats know you can’t skip these!
Give only what you want and can
Dear Human 💕, I enjoy playing with the curly ribbons you’ve been adding around those boxes that you’re hiding from the other human. I know you’re excited to have other humans unwrap those boxes...
You have the right to be human
Dear Human 💕, I see you asking yourself a lot what you should or shouldn’t do. It seems like you’re questioning what you are allowed to do. It looks like I need to remind...
it’s okay to hide sometimes
Dear Human 💕, I can see you want to hide from the world right now. That’s okay. Sometimes the world seems too loud, too demanding, too chaotic, too confusing. Sometimes hiding is exactly what...
Discover your inner compass
Dear Human 💕, You seem a little lost and confused about which direction to take. You’re not as lost as you think. You actually do have an inner compass that can guide you. It...
Be there for others
Dear Human 💕, I can see you’re worried about another human in your life. They seem different lately. Maybe they’re not grooming themselves as much, or they’re sleeping more, or they’ve stopped doing things...
Ask for what you need
Dear Human 💕, It’s okay to meow for what you need. If you don’t meow for it, other humans can’t know what it is you need. Humans are terrible at mind reading. And sometimes...
You’re never doing nothing
Dear Human 💕, I overheard you beating yourself up, because “you’ve done nothing all day”. You are never doing nothing. You might not check off anything on your to-do list or do anything extraordinary,...
The Pie of Life. Get the balance right.
Dear Human 💕, I noticed that you don’t do much anymore beyond working, cuddling with me and the other human on the sofa, and sleeping. You’re avoiding all the other humans, you’re not cycling,...
Treat yourself like you treat your cat
Dear Human 💕, Most of my days I sleep a lot, have some food, watch some birds, stretch and scratch my cactus, sleep some more. I really don’t achieve much. I just take care...