Stop apologizing so much
Dear Human 💕, I’ve been counting how many times you said “sorry” today. 12. You apologized for asking a question. You apologized for seeing something differently. You apologized for taking up space. You apologized...
Tagged: Being Human
The messy experience of being an imperfect human being alive for the first time. That includes having lots of feelings and thoughts that often contradict each other. It’s confusing!
Read these books (or don’t, I’ve got you either way)
Dear Human 💕, Happy New Year! I noticed that starting a new year makes a lot of humans think about improving themselves and their lives. My notes are here to help! And if you...
You have the right to be human
Dear Human 💕, I see you asking yourself a lot what you should or shouldn’t do. It seems like you’re questioning what you are allowed to do. It looks like I need to remind...
There are three sides to every story
Dear Human 💕, I noticed you’re trying to figure out what really happened between those two other humans. You listened to the first human. Their story made sense. You could see why they felt...
Appreciate your humans
Dear Human 💕, It’s that time of year when humans gather to share a giant bird – or a Tofurky thing – and as many side dishes as there are humans at the table....
Are they really not trying?
Dear Human 💕, I can see you’re angry at that human. They haven’t reached out in weeks. They keep canceling plans. They don’t seem to be making any effort at all. It feels like...
Be you. Be real. Be weird.
Dear Human 💕, those blinking orange lights that you’ve been playing with for the past hour are mesmerizing. And I really, really want to chase them. You know I can’t resist blinking things. Why...
You are not bad. You did something bad.
Dear Human 💕, That was not one of your best moments. That human wanted to be encouraging and offer support, and you reacted like they stepped on my tail on purpose. You got defensive...
Keep as much on the not-a-shit side as you can
Dear Human 💕, I saw the whole thing. You snapped at that human, and what you said was totally uncalled for. That was a pretty shitty thing to say. And you know it. Now...
A podcast episode about me!
Dear Human 💕, There’s a podcast episode about me! Meow, sort of. I am not famous enough for anyone to feature me in their podcast, but I accidentally ended up with my own 15-minute...