Tagged: STOP Skill

An emergency brake for your emotions. Instead of reacting right away, allow your brain to catch up. Before you do anything, think about how you want to respond.

  1. Stop. Don’t react.
  2. Take a breath and try to calm down.
  3. Observe what’s going on in and around you.
  4. Proceed with something you think will be helpful.
Star Trek characters representing wise mind: Spock as logic, Kirk as emotion, Counselor Troi as balanced decision making

Let your inner counselor decide

Dear Human 💕, I can see you’re struggling with a decision right now. Your logic is telling you one thing, your emotions are telling you something completely different. You’re stuck in the middle, feeling...

Too much? Distract yourself.

Dear Human 💕, You look extremely frustrated right now. I can see you want to smash that thing you’ve been trying to fix.  Before you smash it, here’s what you need to know: Strong...

Is that helpful?

Dear Human 💕, Sometimes I really wonder “What did you do THAT for?” Seriously, before you react to anything, ask yourself “Is that helpful?“ Is it helpful, Will THAT reaction get you what you...