There’s no way to not choose

Dear Human 💕,

You’ve been pondering over this decision for weeks now. And I can see you’re getting more and more anxious about it.

I get it. You don’t want to rush it. It’s an important decision!

You’re afraid to make the wrong choice. You want to consider carefully what to do. You’re telling yourself you can’t decide yet.

Here’s the thing though: you cannot not decide. Not making a decision is a choice.

Each day that you don’t decide is a day that you don’t choose to do something different. And until the day you choose to do something different, you’re choosing to keep doing more of the same.

Until you sign the lease on that new apartment, you’re choosing to stay where you are.

Until you hand in your resignation, you’re choosing to stay in the current job.

Until you book that plane ticket, you’re choosing not to take that trip.

Until you have that difficult conversation, you’re choosing to let the problem continue.

Until I meow for my treat, I’m choosing to not have a treat.

Each day that you don’t decide, you’re choosing to keep things the same.

Meow. There’s no way to not choose.

So, what are you choosing today?

Yours,
Cat 🐾

P.S. when you’re struggling with what to choose, ask yourself: Which choice moves me closer to the life I want to live? Which choice aligns with what’s truly important to me?

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