Your no protects your yes
Dear Human 💕, I can see that you want to say no, but you feel uncomfortable with it. You’re worried about disappointing the other human. You’re worried about seeming rude or selfish. So instead...
The Therapy Cat Notes to my Human
This is hard
Dear Human 💕, I see you’re struggling with being kind to yourself. Meow. It’s simpler than you think. Start by acknowledging that the situation is difficult. It’s complicated. It brings up a lot of...
Calm down with your senses in 5-4-3-2-1
Dear Human 💕, I can see you’re about to get the zoomies. Here’s a quick exercise that works for me to calm me down when I am about to loose it. First, take a...
Stop apologizing so much
Dear Human 💕, I’ve been counting how many times you said “sorry” today. 12. You apologized for asking a question. You apologized for seeing something differently. You apologized for taking up space. You apologized...
Read these books (or don’t, I’ve got you either way)
Dear Human 💕, Happy New Year! I noticed that starting a new year makes a lot of humans think about improving themselves and their lives. My notes are here to help! And if you...
You can’t avoid disappointing others (or being disappointed)
Dear Human 💕, I’ve been watching you and the other human trying to figure out plans for your night together. One human wants to go out. One human wants to stay in. You want...
Give only what you want and can
Dear Human 💕, I enjoy playing with the curly ribbons you’ve been adding around those boxes that you’re hiding from the other human. I know you’re excited to have other humans unwrap those boxes...
If you don’t ask you’re saying NO to yourself
Dear Human 💕 I can see you hesitate to ask for what you want. What if the say NO? Think about it: Maybe there’s only a 10 % chance that they say YES and...
Let’s see how it goes
Dear Human 💕, I can see you’re stressing out over how things will turn out. Let me remind you that you cannot control the future. It’s unpredictable. I know that human brains don’t like...
You don’t know how much time you have
Dear Human 💕, Lately you’ve been thinking a lot about humans who are gone. Friends. Family. Humans you wish were still here. Humans who left way too soon. None of us knows how much...