The Therapy Cat Notes to my Human

Cat looking guilty after breaking toy snake - example of when to apologize versus over-apologizing

Stop apologizing so much

Dear Human 💕, I’ve been counting how many times you said “sorry” today. 12. You apologized for asking a question. You apologized for seeing something differently. You apologized for taking up space. You apologized...

Give only what you want and can

Dear Human 💕,  I enjoy playing with the curly ribbons you’ve been adding around those boxes that you’re hiding from the other human.  I know you’re excited to have other humans unwrap those boxes...

Let’s see how it goes

Dear Human 💕, I can see you’re stressing out over how things will turn out. Let me remind you that you cannot control the future. It’s unpredictable. I know that human brains don’t like...

You have the right to be human

Dear Human 💕, I see you asking yourself a lot what you should or shouldn’t do. It seems like you’re questioning what you are allowed to do. It looks like I need to remind...