Stop apologizing so much
Dear Human 💕, I’ve been counting how many times you said “sorry” today. 12. You apologized for asking a question. You apologized for seeing something differently. You apologized for taking up space. You apologized...
Category: Move Forward
Take action to create the life you actually want instead of just surviving each day. This is about setting goals, making progress, and turning all that knowledge about yourself into real changes in your daily life.
Read these books (or don’t, I’ve got you either way)
Dear Human 💕, Happy New Year! I noticed that starting a new year makes a lot of humans think about improving themselves and their lives. My notes are here to help! And if you...
If you don’t ask you’re saying NO to yourself
Dear Human 💕 I can see you hesitate to ask for what you want. What if the say NO? Think about it: Maybe there’s only a 10 % chance that they say YES and...
Let’s see how it goes
Dear Human 💕, I can see you’re stressing out over how things will turn out. Let me remind you that you cannot control the future. It’s unpredictable. I know that human brains don’t like...
There’s no way to not choose
Dear Human 💕, You’ve been pondering over this decision for weeks now. And I can see you’re getting more and more anxious about it. I get it. You don’t want to rush it. It’s...
Turn your shoulds into coulds
Dear Human 💕, you’ve been telling yourself all day that you should go on a walk, but you didn’t even put your shoes on yet. The weather is perfect, and you always tell me...
A podcast episode about me!
Dear Human 💕, There’s a podcast episode about me! Meow, sort of. I am not famous enough for anyone to feature me in their podcast, but I accidentally ended up with my own 15-minute...
What are all those Therapy Terms about?
Dear Human 💕, You have been reading my notes and you noticed all those therapy terms I’ve been tagging them with. You’ve been wondering what they are all about. Negativity Bias, Inner Critic, Depression,...
You don’t have time, you make time
Dear Human 💕, I keep hearing you say “I don’t have time.”. You don’t have time for a lunch break. You don’t have time to call that human. You don’t have time for a...
Take a next step. Even if it’s tiny.
Dear Human 💕, I can see you’re depressed and you feel like you can’t do anything. You feel overwhelmed and stuck. You don’t have any energy and everything seems to be a struggle. You...