Listen to understand
Dear Human 💕. It looks like you’re listening, but you don’t seem to understand. You seem to be thinking about how you’re going to respond and if there is anything you can fix. You...
Category: Connect with Others
Chose carefully who you want to trust
Dear Human 💕, I noticed it’s hard for you to trust other humans. I know you had some pretty bad experiences in your life. You trusted other humans to be honest and to keep...
Ask for what you need
Dear Human 💕, It’s okay to meow for what you need. If you don’t meow for it, other humans can’t know what it is you need. Humans are terrible at mind reading. And sometimes...
Who can I ask for support?
Dear Human 💕, You look like you are struggling and I am here for you. I like to know my go-to-creatures that can support me in all kinds of different situations. This way I...
Dare to show your belly
Dear Human 💕, I know it feels scary to show your belly. I was very hesitant at first myself. I was afraid you might hurt me. After months of cleaning my litter box, mostly...
How can I support you?
Dear Human 💕, I know you like to help and solve problems, and I appreciate most of your advice. It has been helpful many times. Remember, when you advised me to stay away from...
Some help please?
Dear Human 💕, I noticed that you’re struggling with accepting help and that you really, really don’t like to ask for it. I know humans would like to be as independent as cats are....
It‘s okay to say NO
Dear Human 💕, It’s okay to say NO. If a human touches your belly, when you don’t want it, it’s okay to give them a gentle bite. Most humans will get that you want...
Embrace Conflict
Dear Human 💕, I noticed you’re trying to avoid conflict. Look at it this way: conflict is just two creatures seeing things differently. It happens all the time and you can’t avoid it. We...
What do I need?
Dear Human 💕, The most important question to ask yourself is “What do I need?”. Humans are great at knowing what OTHERS need. I get all the cuddles from my humans, whenever I need...