Dear Human 💕,

I noticed you keep going over what happend in your head . . . again and again and again. You can’t believe it. You were kind, honest, and you showed up for that human and they treated you like yesterday’s kibble.

Now you’re questioning yourself. Did you do something wrong? Should you have done more? Were you not clear enough?

Meow. Stop right there.

Here’s one of life’s tougher lessons: the way you treat other humans is not always the way they’ll treat you.

🐾 You can be kind to another human, and they might be cruel back.

🐾 You can be honest with another human, and they might lie to you.

🐾 You can show up for another human, and they might let you down.

Is that fair? No.

Should you change? Absolutely not!

You treat others well because that’s who you are. That’s how you want to show up in the world.

Keep showing up the way you do. And when others don’t treat you the same? That tells you something about them, not about you.

If you treat others well, you deserve the same. If another human keeps treating you badly, you don’t have to put up with it. Put your paw down. Let them know it’s not okay. And if they don’t change, walk away.

Yours,
Cat 🐾